Posted 4 months ago

Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela
July 18, 1918 to December 05, 2013 

"There is no passion to be found playing small - in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living."


Farewell

“No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.”

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Posted 4 months ago
Please allow me to gush amazement, appreciation and deep-felt thanks for your blog. You write things like, "Being an exhibitionist is exciting and extremely freeing spiritually." You celebrate the inherent grace and beauty of the body. You're incredibly positive and affirming of people and their choices, of progressive values. You're smart and reflective, grounded in a thoughtful philosophy. You very much strike me as not only a bellwether of changes to come in our culture, but a leader...
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Posted 4 months ago
...even if it's "only" here on tumblr and "only" with an audience of several thousand. Your influence on those who follow your blog cannot be underestimated. As you know we live in a culture that still suffers under a huge weight of sexual guilt, shame, repression, and ignorance, and one that still seems to hold pleasure itself in suspicion. Yet, somehow, you've not only been able to overcome this to a large extent, from what I can tell anyway, but you're articulating in each post a radical..
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Posted 4 months ago
but perfectly natural, organic and healthy alternative. I love you! :) (Sorry for the overlong comment and having to send it in 3 parts.)
Anonymous asked

O M G !!  Wow, I am blown away by your wonderfully overwhelming message and compliments hon, what you said honestly touched me!  Damn why did you not identify yourself as I would love to know who you are versus remaining only Anonymous.  That must be one of the most special messages I have ever received on here, I was in awe reading all three parts over and you made my heart skip a beat.

Sorry for the long delay in getting back to you but I have been busy and I’m once again waaay behind on both checking and responding to my message box.  So I hope you see this and can read it, please know that your words mean sooo much to me, and I am very happy that my blog has had so much impact upon you!!  I do not know if I would ever describe myself or my actions here as being so significant or meaningful, and I do not necessarily consider myself a bellwether. You flatter me by stating and inferring so many amazing things.

However I do wish to encourage people to think about their life and their sexuality more seriously, and to take the time to evaluate what it is they truly want and need in their life to be more fulfilled, and ideally, to be strong enough to go after it and fight for it if they must.  This is a very repressed world in many ways cluttered with inhibitions and denials that are forced upon all of us by others in society, who were no doubt taught themselves this is how things must always be and therefore we see a constant perpetuation of this limiting narrow minded culture.  If I can help others focus on not just the fantasy but encourage them to take the steps they need to take to reach their desired goals by breaking through this uncomfortable paradigm to release their inner self, then that would make me very happy and honored to see them set free. 

Everything on my blog is related to my experiences and perspectives, my blog is a digital form of myself, truly, and I try to craft it in such a manner that it correctly details various aspects of my daily life and give insight into how I view the world, both as it is, and if we change, how it could be.  It’s so much fun and allows me to communicate the beauty of this dynamic lifestyle to so many others which I find quite rewarding. We should never be afraid to embrace our sexuality, no matter what that may entail for any one individual, for it is who we are, it is a part of us.  I support people irregardless of their choices because who am I to judge them for what they truly want, if they are in fact being legitimately honest about that.  We are all the same yet we are all very unique as well, and I love celebrating those differences and similarities!  They define us, they are real, pure and honest.

So thank you once more for these incredible messages, you’ve both humbled me and made me feel like a Queen all at once, I’m still in utter dismay over your words, so deeply flattered I can’t even begin to say how much.  Please write back sometime, and let me know who you are, I can keep your name or our dialogue discreet if you prefer, I do this as it is for many others.  I hope you continue to find my blog uplifting, entertaining and fun.  Cheers, JoJo :)

Posted 4 months ago
Hey fantastic blog! Especially the lovely bbc pics :) keep up the great work please!! x
pauljs76 asked

Hello and thank you for writing, I’m always glad to hear that others are also enjoying my twisted mind and slutty thoughts and behavior!  I do love my blog, working on it and talking to people, something I sincerely wish I had more time so I could do it more often and in a more timely manner.  I find it always turns myself on to be on it, lol, letting my mind wander and my imagination to play as past memories resurface when I see certain photos that take me back to places I’ve been and all the fun kinky and dirty things I’ve done or more specifically have had done to me :)

Posted 4 months ago
Have you seen Devin Brugman? She's an incredibly hot swimsuit model (her boobs are simply sublime) who runs abikiniaday on tumblr and instagram. And while she broke up with Greg Little semi-recently, she seems to share your taste in men (Busted Coverage has a good article on it.)
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Hello and no I was not familiar with Devin Brugman at all before you told me about her, so curiously I checked her out afterwards and read up on her.  You’re right, she really does have very nice big natural boobs on her, with great cleavage.  I can not say I am surprised she’s so into black men.  She’s fit and extroverted and enjoys showing off her body (being a model by choice is not for shy types), girls like Devin are not inhibited about doing what they want irregardless of what others say or think. We tend to live outside the box, rather then trapped inside it like some people endure.

So without knowing her personally I’d say her obvious attraction and desire to be with black men by choosing to openly date them is merely an extension of how she chooses to live her life.  Hot girls today want hot guys more then ever now.  Guys who look after themselves and are very fit, who are cool and fun and exciting, guys to not only treat us well but who make it clear to us that they are in control, taking the upper hand in any type of relationship they have with us and in a way put us in our place, in the traditional sense.  I love a dominant strong confidant man, it makes me feel more like a girl at times, and I think many girls can identify with that.  We like getting our way, that’s no secret sure, but at the same time we want to be told what to do, when, how and why.  It is something we respect, even if we may not agree with at the time, and it is or can be very sexy too.  As importantly as his alpha male personality, is that he knows exactly how we honestly want to be treated in bed too!  For many of us, it’s being a Princess on the street and a Slut in the sheets, lol. 

Black men often tend to bring out our inner slut better or more easily it seems, and most of them usually fuck like champions, so what girl doesn’t want that in her life.  Sex matters today more then ever too, as while it has always been important to guys, girls are no longer afraid to say hey we want it too, just as much as you guys do.  Plus, we have raised our standards as well as to what we will accept or want and need in bed, we are no longer there just to amuse guys, but we want sexual gratification too, to be fulfilled in bed as well.  Black men always bring it, sure they take whatever pleasure they want from us, some gently and others almost violently, lol, but in return we always get ours too!  It’s one of the reasons why more and more white girls are now dating outside our ethnicity and are going black, just like Devin chose to.  Cheers :)

Posted 4 months ago
Ah, Italian, that's why you're so fucking sexy! I've always thought that Italians are Black people in white skin. This may be a dumb question, but do you speak italian as well?
shinsekkai asked

Italians are Black people in white skin - LMAO!  I fucking LOVE that!!!  You know, I think you may be more correct then you even realize hon.  I’m a total history buff (I know weird right), and when the Moors conquered parts of Europe and particularly Sicily and southern Italy back in the beginning of the 10th century, they set up a significant Muslim community that reigned over the Italian people for about 75 years until the Normans came in basically.

At the time, over simplifying it for brevity, the Moorish soldiers killed many Italian men and largely enslaved the people and took many Italian women for their own for sexual purposes, breeding them so heavily and dominantly that they in fact began to change the bloodline forever.  Back then Italians were actually a much fairer skinned people, but after the Moorish conquest, skin tones became darker (Olive complexion) as did their hair and eyes.  This is why in Northern Italy you can still find some Italians who are very fair skinned and paler and with blue eyes, even with blonde hair sometimes, while down South they are all dark skin, hair and eyes to this day.  Crazy but true.

So, to say we are black people in white skin, lol, you pretty much nailed it on the head my friend!  Brilliantly so I may add.  I say it is among the best parts of us too!!  So thank you for the really wonderful compliment but I owe my some of my sexiness to my black roots I think. 

Anyways, getting back to your initial question, yes, I speak fluent Italian, and a few other languages as well.  As a child I learned both English and Italian at home through my family and then French at school, and once you pick up another language, or especially a couple, it becomes surprisingly easy to then learn others on top of those because many languages share similar lingo, so it is easier to pick them up and figure out what to say.  So now I also know Spanish, German, a little Swedish which is rather funny, and I am currently working on Russian through a girlfriend of mine who is helping coach me in it, but it is a very challenging language actually compared to all the others I know.  I think it sounds very sexy though, whenever she speaks it to me I swear it gets me so seriously wet, lol, or maybe that is just her too, she’s as hot as her Russian is. 

Cheers, JoJo :)

Posted 4 months ago
Ho Ho Ho…

Ho Ho Ho…

Posted 4 months ago
Taylor Swift with BFF Selena Gomez singing rap to Nicki Minaj’s song Super Bass.

Taylor Swift with BFF Selena Gomez singing rap to Nicki Minaj’s song Super Bass.

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Posted 4 months ago

Truth!  Gucci has never publicly confirmed (nor denied) that he and Latina hottie Selena Gomez hooked up repeatedly for multiple steamy encounters together in her trailer while working together on the set of her movie Spring Breakers.  A true gentlemen never tells.

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Posted 4 months ago
There must be some mistletoe over their heads, it’s a good tradition.

There must be some mistletoe over their heads, it’s a good tradition.

Posted 4 months ago

Blowing guys while wearing roller skates is not easy, you need to practice your balance first before they meet you there.  Being a slut is hard work :)

Posted 4 months ago

You’re girl used to be so nervous about showing too much skin in public, but now that she’s gone Black for you, she practically waits naked at the door for him to arrive.

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Posted 4 months ago
The Angels are coming this December, sexy is coming back.

The Angels are coming this December, sexy is coming back.

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Posted 4 months ago

Busted!  Well, you may as well just let them watch you now.  Or join in…

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